Stop Overthinking: Better Decision-Making with Dr. Ricardo Valerdi
Why is it so difficult to make choices our future self will thank us for? In this episode, Ethan sits down with engineer and educator Dr. Ricardo Valerdi to break down the principles of effective decision-making. Drawing from sports, tech, and aerospace, Dr. Valerdi explains how recognizing cognitive biases, embracing failure, and defining clear metrics can help us escape mental ruts. Ethan shares lessons from his own weight-loss journey, highlighting the importance of personal ownership, shifting perspective, and assembling a trusted support team. Sign up for Ethan's newsletter: https://ethansuplee.substack.com/subscribe SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Welcoming Dr. Ricardo Valerdi 01:18 - Present Self vs. Future Self in Decision-Making 04:02 - Decision Principles from Sports, Tech, and the Military 05:33 - Critical Thinking and Challenging Personal Biases 08:05 - Stoic Philosophy: Suffering in Imagination vs. Reality 13:26 - Spotting Blind Spots and the Need for Honest Feedback 16:38 - Taking Ownership of the Path Forward 20:00 - Playing the Hand You Are Dealt 22:00 - Lessons from SpaceX: Learning Fast from Failure 26:30 - Incremental Habits vs. Transformational Change 30:10 - Setting Clear Metrics and Redefining Self-Worth 36:58 - The Five-Tool Team: Why Nobody Succeeds Alone Ethan’s new book is available for pre-order:Glutton - A Memoir of AppetiteBy Ethan SupleeAn intensely moving and ultimately hopeful memoir about addiction, fame, and decades of extreme weight gain and loss, from a man who broke free from cycles of misery and shame to become who he is today – actor, podcaster, and author Ethan Suplee. Pre-order from: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/ethan-suplee/glutton/9780306835100/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.