Indifference Vs. Standing Up For Yourself

How to know when to employ the principle of indifference and when you should stand up for yourself when dating someone new. In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is confused about when he should be employing indifference vs. standing up for himself and showing self-respect when a woman’s actions do not match his expectations for the relationship. He wants to know when it is appropriate to put his foot down when he’s in a non-committed relationship situation. It’s obvious the woman he is dating is not matching his unreasonable expectations and therefore he is struggling to resist the urge to do something or confront her to force her to act the way he wants even though they just started dating and it’s not serious yet. His email perfectly illustrates the needy and weak mindset that causes men to chase, try and force things and talk women right out of liking them.