Episode Ep 51 June 23, 2026 1 hr 38 min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 69 | Scammers, Shea Butter Baby & Sunday Service

From Decisions, Decisions The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends culture, history, politics, gender dynamics, ethics, music, and modern social norms. The episode opens with a humorous discussion about dog owners, pet culture, and the ways people project social expectations onto public spaces [ 03:14 ], before transitioning into conversations about conspiracy theories, historical narratives, and the importance of understanding context when discussing major societal issues [ 06:10 ]. The crew reflects on the significance of Juneteenth and its place within American history and Black cultural identity [ 09:05 ], while also engaging in a spirited debate about regional identity, cultural geography, and whether Oklahoma belongs to the Midwest or the South [ 11:50 ]. The discussion circles back to the growing presence of pets in public spaces and the evolving expectations surrounding modern pet ownership [ 14:50 ].

As the episode progresses, the hosts tackle more nuanced conversations surrounding gender roles, societal expectations, and the ways women and men often reinforce traditional norms [ 23:53 ]. This leads into a broader discussion about platforming controversial figures, political discourse, and the responsibilities that come with amplifying certain viewpoints [ 33:02 ]. The crew examines conservative ideologies, gender dynamics, and the complexities of modern political identity [ 36:03 ], while also debating the balance between rights, responsibilities, and civic engagement in society [ 39:32 ]. The conversation then pivots into difficult ethical territory, exploring a controversial debate around cruel and unusual punishment [ 44:34 ], followed by a thought-provoking discussion about an IVF mix-up involving a Black child raised by a white family and the moral questions surrounding parenthood, race, and identity [ 47:52 ].

In the final stretch of the episode, the hosts unpack the ongoing conversation around vasectomies, family planning, and modern masculinity [ 58:30 ], leading into a candid debate about condom usage, birth control, and shared responsibility within relationships [ 01:06:17 ][ 01:07:57 ]. The discussion then shifts to music, with reflections on the legacy and influence of producer Tay Keith [ 01:12:44 ], before examining the business realities of music royalties, ownership, and financial longevity in the entertainment industry [ 01:15:05 ]. The crew closes out the episode with a conversation about legacy, reputation, and the impact individuals leave behind [ 01:19:59 ], before ending with a lively and nostalgic debate surrounding the highly anticipated B2K vs. Pretty Ricky Verzuz matchup and the lasting cultural significance of both groups [ 01:20:30 ]. Packed with humor, debate, and cultural insight, this episode explores how history, identity, relationships, and entertainment continue to shape the conversations happening today.