HR 9 – Instead of leaning on others, standing on one's own feet – The Holy Rule of St. Benedict with Fr. Mauritius Wilde O.S.B – Discerning

Instead of leaning on others, standing on one's own feet – The Holy Rule of St. Benedict with Fr. Mauritius Wilde O.S.B In this episode of The Holy Rule of St. Benedict: A Spiritual Path for Today’s World, Fr. Mauritius Wilde, OSB, and Kris McGregor explore the wisdom behind Chapter 69 of the Rule, which cautions against defending another within the monastic community. At first glance, this teaching may seem surprising, even counterintuitive. Yet St. Benedict’s insight reveals a deeper spiritual purpose: fostering maturity, responsibility, and trust. By encouraging each monk to speak for himself, the Rule strengthens both the individual and the unity of the community, preventing division and the formation of factions. Fr. Mauritius explains that this principle extends beyond the monastery into everyday Christian life. Learning to “stand on one’s own feet” is part of spiritual growth, requiring trust in God, confidence in the presence of the Holy Spirit, and a willingness to take responsibility for one’s own words and actions. At the same time, the Rule provides safeguards for justice and care, ensuring that individuals can be heard while preserving unity. In a world increasingly dependent on external support systems and constant connection, Benedictine spirituality offers a path toward authentic freedom rooted in personal responsibility and trust in God. From the Holy Rule of St. Benedict Chapter 69: CHAPTER LXIX That in the Monastery No One Presume to Defend Another
Care must be taken that on no occasion one monk try to defend another in the monastery,
or to take his part, even though they be closely related by ties of blood. Let it not be
attempted by the monks in any way; because such conduct may give rise to very grave
scandal. If anyone overstep this rule, let him be severely punished. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions

1. St. Benedict encourages each person to speak for themselves. How comfortable am I taking responsibility for my own words and actions?
2. In what situations do I tend to rely too heavily on others instead of stepping forward in trust?
3. How does my level of trust in others affect my ability to grow within a community?
4. Where might God be inviting me to mature in confidence, trusting the Holy Spirit to guide me?
5. Do I see personal responsibility as a burden or as a path to greater freedom?
6. How can I grow in both independence and unity, remaining rooted in Christ while living in relationship with others?

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Fr. Mauritius Wilde's Discerning Hearts page Father Mauritius Wilde, OSB, Ph.D., did his philosophical, theological, and doctoral studies in Europe. He is the author of several books and regularly directs retreats. He serves as Prior at Sant’Anselmo in Rome.