Debrief | Soulmate Language, Triangulation, and Crazy-Making in Avery’s Story

In this debrief episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon breaks down the patterns of abuse found in Avery’s survivor story, including soulmate language, triangulation with former partners, financial abuse, and the confusion created when someone’s words repeatedly fail to match their actions. The episode also examines how Avery’s emotions, communication, and reactions were used to discredit her legitimate concerns. Apologies created hope and restarted the relationship without producing lasting change, while circular conversations kept Avery defending herself instead of addressing the original behaviour.