Fitting out vs fitting in vs belonging

Listen to the full episode here https://empjoyment.com Fitting out vs fitting in vs belonging Sharing some real-time reflections after rereading my high school yearbook. tl ;dr - many of us try to combat the loneliness in not belonging by “fitting-in”. On the other side of the same coin is the opposite-but-equal approach of “fitting out”. If fitting-in involves you making choices to not stick out in order to be accepted, fitting out involves you making choices specifically to stick out and this “not need” (haha) to be accepted. More clarity forthcoming as I gain more awareness and insight around it.