How Bryan Kohberger Still Controls His Family
From a cell south of Boise, Bryan Kohberger is still issuing instructions. A birthday cake baked to his eldest sister's taste. Candles blown out by someone else. Hours of daily video calls — not ordered by any court, just expected. And on July 27, a handwritten petition filed in Ada County without his family knowing until a headline told them.
That petition names Anne Taylor, Elisa Massoth, and Bicka Barlow — the defense attorneys who kept a quadruple murderer off Idaho's death row — and calls their work ineffective. Bryan is representing himself.
But the petition is the latest act, not the first. The pattern started in 2014, when a nineteen-year-old Bryan stole Melissa's phone, sold it for two hundred dollars, and warned his father not to do anything stupid when he was confronted. The family's response was not to walk away. They reported it, and then they rebuilt him. Rehab to community college to a bachelor's to a master's to a doctoral program. The word they used was "proud."
What emerged from all that work walked into a house on King Road in the early morning of November 13, 2022.
This piece is an open letter to the Kohberger family — not asking them to stop loving their son, but asking them to consider that the person they're holding on to is not the person they made. That the account is closed. That a family's decency is not measured by how long they let someone spend it.
Four students will never get another birthday. Bryan Kohberger asked his sister to bake a cake and blow out the candles for him.
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