Why Self Judgment Stops Your Next Level | Ep 990

From Outlier's Edge Podcast with Niiamah Ashong Niiamah Ashong

Join Niiamah (@niiamahashong) and two exceptional leaders, Stacey and Kai, for a throwback live coaching session that goes straight at the judgment running underneath the next level. This episode unpacks what actually keeps leaders stuck at the door of their next chapter. Not the strategy. The judgment. The pleasing. The self-abandonment that masquerades as humility, service, and "being a good person."

What you will take away:

Why self-judgment is the real ceiling on your next level, not skill or strategy
How perfectionism is a form of self-abandonment dressed up as protection
The reframe that ends the pleasing loop: there is no test

Welcome to the Outlier's Edge Podcast, hosted by Niiamah Ashong, Founder of Outlier's Edge and Sherpa of the World of Difference. On this podcast, you'll join other high-performing unconventional leaders and entrepreneurs (aka Outliers) as they talk about leveraging what makes them different to make a difference in the world.

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Timestamps:

00:00 — Welcome to Shape Your World Live

02:50 — Stacey enters the next level game

05:30 — The vision she has not spoken

10:20 — Who am I to think this

14:00 — Stepping naked into the light

20:00 — Kai on the hot seat

23:30 — The wound under the pleasing

27:00 — Same pattern new difficulty level

29:30 — The gifts hiding in the wound

36:20 — Abandonment dressed as perfectionism

42:00 — The coaching call she walked out of

46:30 — How leaders carry their own safety

57:30 — There is no test

59:00 — Dance instead of perform

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Episode Originally Published on: 9/8/2019